"Back off Haters"

Hey there! and welcome back to Demea Style!!!

 

It has been a long time since the last time that I posted anything and I owe you all an apology. I have no excuses or justifications, just that I completely forgot.

Anyway...

You may be wondering what this post is about and if it is dedicated to anyone in particular. First of all... This post is about dealing with people who are rude and the so called "Haters". The second part, is this dedicated to someone? nope. But this is dedicated to anyone who has been rude to you or anyone else who you know that isn't spreading the good vibes.

I have gone through so much hate, self-doubt and struggle throughout my life but through all the bad times I looked to those who inspired me, loved me and respected me. They were the people that brought me up when others turned their face. They were, and still are, the people that I love and that I am loyal to.

I have been called many things that I certainly am not. I have been lied to straight to my face by the people that I put my trust in. I have been ignored and neglected.  And yeah... being lied to, called names and neglected isn't something that anyone wants to experience. But I did and at the end of it... I got three things out of it and what did they get? Nothing.

Let me tell you what gifts I got:

1. I became a better person
2. I learned about the people the type of people I wanted to surround myself with 
3. Last but not least, I learned more about the person I am and the values that I have

So what I really want to happen is that anyone who has ever felt humiliated, ignored, lied to, shut down or has felt discriminated against. Is to push forward and look for the silver lining and be yourself... YOU ARE NOT SOMEONE ELSE'S OPINION OF YOU!! You are you. Beautiful you. Look on the positive side of the situation and look at how you can grow from it.  Surround yourself with people who love, cherish and appreciate you. 

One things that I do, is take photos of nature, my pets, my family or anything around me. I focus on the good things and look at the beauty of them instead of the negativity of the people that are rude, selfish and aren't loyal. 

Here are someone my photos of the beauty I found simply around my house:

Thanks for reading and spread the love <3